Christianity People confuse being religious and having a relationship with God.just because you go to church every Sunday and serve at church means you have a good relationship with God. There is a big difference between religion and relationship. Religion is about rules and regulations that should be followed for a certain religion it could be dressing in a certain way,talking in a certain way,eating certain food,going to Church every Sunday,practicing the 10 commandments. In relationships and friendships people communicate with each other this is how our relationship with God should be. We build a relationship with God by reading his word through the bible,praying and fasting. This is how we connect with God and also listen to him when he speaks with us .prayer is a form of communication with God.there's no relationship without communication same with God there's no relationship without prayer. Christianity is about having a relationship with God and his son Jesus Christ